Do you want it to follow symlinks but not return them (if they match your pattern)?
find -H?
man find
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-H Cause the file information and file type (see stat(2)) returned for each symbolic link specified on the command line to be those of
the file referenced by the link, not the link itself. If the referenced file does not exist, the file information and type will be
for the link itself. File information of all symbolic links not on the command line is that of the link itself.
-L Cause the file information and file type (see stat(2)) returned for each symbolic link to be those of the file referenced by the
link, not the link itself. If the referenced file does not exist, the file information and type will be for the link itself.
This option is equivalent to the deprecated -follow primary.
I have readed the MAN and now it seems is -P
also, using -type r would raise an error.
also notice is the DEFAULT behavior now.
-P Never follow symbolic links. This is the default behaviour. When find examines or prints
information a file, and the file is a symbolic link, the information used shall be taken from
the properties of the symbolic link itself.
-xtypec
The same as -type unless the file is a symbolic link. For symbolic links: if the -H or -P option was specified, true if the file is a
link to a file of type c; if the -L option has been given, true if c
is 'l'. In other words, for symbolic links, -xtype checks the type of
the file that -type does not check.